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“I hate being a mom” and that’s okay
I hate being a mom. Okay, okay, I don’t hate it… at least, not all of the time. Let me explain. Motherhood was always presented to me as a journey of love, joy, fulfillment, road trips where my kids roll their eyes at me, and lots of bad art. But what no one told me is that this road trip has road closures and detours that require challenges and sacrifices that I wasn’t fully prepared for!
Oprah Pursues Weight Loss Medication | The Weight of Influence
Oprah Winfry is one of the most influential and well known celebrities, who also happens to be one of the most publicly scrutinized. We are going to look at Oprah’s journey of public criticism of her weight and how the media has played a huge role in it. We’ll explore Oprah’s recent decision that has stirred up conversations across the globe: her choice to embark on a weight loss medication regimen.
Hyperemesis Gravidarum and the Promising Future of Treatment
Hyperemesis Gravidarum, often abbreviated as HG, is a severe and persistent form of morning sickness that affects a small percentage of pregnant people. Unlike typical morning sickness, HG goes beyond the occasional queasiness and can lead to extreme nausea, vomiting, dehydration, and weight loss.
Black Maternal Mortality: A Doula’s Role in Encouraging Change
Black maternal mortality is not just a statistic; it’s a pressing issue that requires our understanding, empathy, and advocacy. During Black History Month, we want to bring awareness to this topic and discuss how we, as doulas, can contribute to being part of this change.
Our Doula Partnership and Why I Love It
In the realm of birthing support, the role of a doula is undeniably profound. As someone who has been fortunate enough to experience the incredible synergy of working in a doula partnership, I can’t help but share the reasons why this collaborative approach adds an extra layer of magic to the birthing process. In this blog post, let’s delve into the beauty of doula partnerships and explore why working hand-in-hand with another doula can make a world of difference.
Masterclass | Let’s Talk Big Fat Pregnancy and Birth
Do you feel alone in your journey to conceive? Are you frustrated with all the overwhelming statistics about birthing in a larger body? Have you doubted if you even want to get pregnant in the body you have now?
Breastfeeding Success is Profoundly Impacted by Doula Care
Today, we embark on a journey to understand the transformative impact of doula care on breastfeeding success and support. In a society that is gradually recognizing and embracing diverse family structures, the role of doulas has become increasingly crucial in providing nurturing support during the beautiful journey of breastfeeding also called chestfeeding to use more inclusive language.
Pain Medication During IUD Insertion and Removal
While this topic may be a bit outside our norm, I have a bone to pick with OBs. While the IUD is a fantastic form of long-term birth control, the process of insertion and removal can be extremely painful- and it is the norm to do both without any pain medication.
Choose Your Labor Room Squad: Who Should Be By Your Side?
Bringing a new life into the world is a monumental journey, and having the right support in the labor room can make all the difference. As you prepare for the big day, one question looms large: Who should be there with you during this transformative experience?
Self Advocacy in Health Decisions, A Guide!
Navigating the complex world of healthcare can be daunting, but fear not! With the right tools and mindset, you can actively participate in decisions about your well-being. In this blog post, we’ll explore the art of self-advocacy in health decisions and empower you to take the reins of your own health journey.
Bond with Your Baby During Postpartum Depression
In this blog post, we’re going to explore the hardships of not feeling immediately attached to your baby after birth and the complications that can arise, particularly in the form of postpartum depression (PPD). So, let’s open up a conversation filled with empathy, understanding, and support.
Tips to a Second Opinion When Your Concerns Are Dismissed
Have you ever shared a concern you have and had it immediately dismissed? When it happens with a healthcare provider, there’s an extra layer of challenge because there is a real inequity in the power balance between you and a medical provider. We are going to discuss seeking a second opinion when your concerns are brushed aside.
Doula Support Prioritizes Personal Birth Preferences
Have you ever wondered if you need to find a doula that has the same birth preferences that you do? One that would make the same decisions as you would, for example? Birth is a deeply personal experience, and it’s only natural for individuals to carry their own preferences and experiences into the birthing room.
Parents: How Doulas Support Non-Birthing Partners
Doulas’ main role is to support the birthing person. However, doulas can also play an instrumental role in supporting the non-birthing parent. Let’s explore the ways doulas shine in supporting non-birthing parents, creating an environment of understanding, empowerment, and shared joy.
How to rock the transition phase of labor
Hello, wonderful readers! If you’re embarking on the incredible journey of childbirth, you’ve likely heard about the mysterious transition phase of labor. Don’t fret!
Online Education is So Awful and We’re Tired Of It
I received my degree online, while being a full-time mom and employee. Being able to get my degree online was the only way I could’ve pursued a masters degree. I didn’t have the financial ability to not be employed. I really love the flexibility that online education gives me. AND I’M SO TIRED OF BAD ONLINE EDUCATION!
The Flawed Arguments Against Fat Liberation
In a recent article, Jason Rantz (a host on a conservative talk radio show) takes aim at the “Fat Con” conference that just occurred in Seattle this last weekend, branding it as supporting a dangerous and backward movement.
While Jason attempts to criticize the fat liberation movement, his arguments are riddled with misinformation, flawed assumptions, and the tired attempts of straight sized white men to shame and judge fat women.
How Doulas Manage Conflict During Birth
The labor and birth process can be intense and emotionally charged, and conflicts may arise between expectant parents and the medical care team. In these moments, doulas often emerge as unsung heroes, skillfully navigating the delicate balance between the desires of the birthing person and the medical necessities. Let’s delve into the crucial role that doulas play to manage conflicts during labor and birth, fostering an environment of understanding and empowerment.
New Year New You! NOPE! I’m already perfect!
As we stand on the brink of a brand-new year, it might be nearly impossible to avoid conversations, ads and articles about a new year/new you type of vibe, which of course typically means weight loss. It might be hard for some people to understand that you have no intention of pursuing weight loss.
Lesbian Couple | Safe Routes for Getting Pregnant
One of the benefits of being a lesbian couple is definitely not accidentally getting pregnant. But what about when you actually want to get pregnant? Well, unsurprisingly, it’s a bit more complicated. While there is an “underground” market for sperm, for many reasons, you should not go that route.
Navigate In-Person vs. Online Classes Birth Education
Bringing a new life into the world is a transformative journey, and preparing for the arrival of your bundle of joy is a crucial step. Birth education classes offer valuable insights, practical tips, and emotional support to expectant parents.
Co-Lactating Lesbians? Here’s a Chest-feeding Schedule for You
Yay! You were able to successfully induce lactation! You may be getting drops to ounces, but you’ve got something and that is important to celebrate. As you are counting down the days to your baby’s arrival, you are likely wondering how you and your partner can schedule feeding times with your newborn. We are going to review what an ideal schedule might look like and how you can adjust that for your own specific needs.
Lesbian Couples: A Guide to Choosing the Perfect Sperm Donor
Embarking on the path to parenthood as a lesbian couple comes with its unique set of considerations- there’s not going to be any accidental pregnancies here for one! Plus, four boobs! Don’t worry, we’ll be talking about that in another blog. As far as deciding how to get pregnant, there’s some options to consider. We are going to go through the different types of donors and why you might want each one.
Pregnancy and Birth During Holidays
Pregnancy and childbirth are profound life events, and when they coincide with the holiday season, the joy and celebration become even more pronounced. In this blog, we’ll explore the unique experiences of expectant families navigating the journey to parenthood during the holidays, with a focus on the cultural significance and various traditions that make this time of the year even more special.