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Safe Routes for Getting Pregnant as a Lesbian Couple

One of the benefits of being a lesbian is definitely not accidentally getting pregnant. But what about when you actually want to get pregnant? Well, unsurprisingly, it’s a bit more complicated. While there is an “underground” market for sperm, for many reasons, you should not go that route.

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Navigate In-Person vs. Online Classes Birth Education

Bringing a new life into the world is a transformative journey, and preparing for the arrival of your bundle of joy is a crucial step. Birth education classes offer valuable insights, practical tips, and emotional support to expectant parents. As technology continues to reshape the way we learn, the debate between in-person and online birth education classes has gained momentum.

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Chest-feeding Schedule for Co-Lactating Lesbians

Yay! You were able to successfully induce lactation! You may be getting drops to ounces, but you’ve got something and that is important to celebrate. As you are counting down the days to your baby’s arrival, you are likely wondering how you and your partner can schedule feeding times with your newborn.

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A Guide to Choosing the Perfect Sperm Donor for Lesbian Couples

Embarking on the path to parenthood as a lesbian couple comes with its unique set of considerations- there’s not going to be any accidental pregnancies here for one! Plus, four boobs! Don’t worry, we’ll be talking about that in another blog. As far as deciding how to get pregnant, there’s some options to consider.

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Pregnancy & Birth During Holidays

The holiday season, with its myriad cultural celebrations, becomes a tapestry of shared joy and anticipation for expectant families. Each festivity adds a unique thread to the fabric of their story, creating a rich narrative that intertwines tradition, hope, and the miracle of new life.

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What to Expect During the Induction Process

You have been counting the days down to your baby’s due date and now the plans have changed and you are getting induced. It is understandable if you need time to grieve the loss of going into labor the way that you expected. Doctors frequently recommend inductions when there is medical indication that the baby needs to come sooner or the birthing parent's health is at risk.

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Navigating Birth Support: Doula vs Midwife

The journey through pregnancy, birth, and postpartum is a profound and transformative experience, and having the right support can make all the difference. Two essential figures in the realm of pregnancy care are doulas and midwives. While their roles may sometimes overlap and they are sometimes confused, they bring distinct skills and perspectives to the birthing process.

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Chest Feeding as the Non-Birthing Parent

As we celebrate the diversity of family structures, it's essential to recognize and embrace the unique experiences that individuals and couples go through during the postpartum period. If you were assigned female at birth and are having a baby, but aren’t the pregnant one, you may be interested in learning more about induced lactation.

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The Importance of Fat Liberation & Inclusive Representation in Media

In recent years, there has been a growing movement advocating for fat liberation and body positivity, challenging societal norms and promoting the acceptance of diverse body sizes. One crucial aspect of this movement is the call for inclusive representation in media, challenging the traditional beauty standards that have perpetuated narrow ideals of attractiveness.

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Navigating the Surrogacy Odyssey: A Comprehensive Exploration of the Journey

Embarking on the extraordinary journey of surrogacy is a decision laden with profound implications, a voyage that reshapes lives and forges new connections. Whether you are a prospective surrogate or intended parent, the path of surrogacy demands a nuanced understanding of the emotional, legal, and ethical considerations intertwined with this life-altering process.

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Parenting Advice Changed My Life

Parenting is so hard and does not come with an instruction manual. Find your own guiding advice that you believe in. Write it down like you might write down your goals or values. Use this to help guide your parenting decisions and reflect on them when you are having a challenging parenting moment.

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How You Can Use MyChart As An Advocacy Tool 

In the ever-evolving landscape of healthcare, one of the most powerful tools at your disposal is often right at your fingertips: email. Most providers now use an online system, frequently MyChart, that you access to manage your healthcare. Patients have access to their tests, medical history, schedule appointments, and message their doctor, like an email.

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How Hospitals Can Be Inviting Spaces for Doulas

At one birth I attended over the weekend, I saw about five nurses, three OB-GYN doctors, and probably around 10 OB-GYN residents (i.e. Meredith Grey at the beginning of Grey’s Anatomy).

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Disturbing Violation of Consent

If you are active on the birth side of social media, you have likely seen the viral video going around titled, “Violation of Consent”. In case you have not seen it, it’s a short clip of a fresh baby laid on their parents stomach.

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Challenges of Chestfeeding as a Plus-Sized Parent

Chestfeeding is a beautiful and rewarding experience for plus-size parents, and with the right support and techniques, you can overcome the unique challenges you may face. Seek professional guidance, invest in comfortable nursing bras, and focus on building a supportive community of like-minded parents.

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Postpartum Doula Support: How to Thrive in the Fourth Trimester

The fourth trimester is a time of profound transformation for both new parents and their newborns. While it can be challenging, the support of a postpartum doula can make all the difference in helping you not only survive but thrive during this critical period.

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Benefits of Having a Doula: How Your Support Makes a Difference

As you embark on this incredible journey to parenthood, remember that having a doula by your side can make all the difference in the world. Their unwavering support can help you navigate the challenges of labor with confidence, leaving you with lasting memories of a beautiful and empowering birthing experience.

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Doulas Provide Emotional & Mental Support

Pregnancy and childbirth are monumental events in a person's life, filled with emotional and mental challenges. Doulas play an essential role in providing the emotional and mental support needed during this transformative journey.

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The Role of a Doula

The role of a doula during pregnancy and childbirth is invaluable. Whether you choose a birth doula, postpartum doula, or antepartum doula, their support can enhance your experience and lead to more positive outcomes.

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